Hi! I’m Jenifer, the main voice behind The Evolista. I’m a native Californian that lives in Los Angeles.
From a very early age, I was pretty adventurous. So when my mom saw a tiny ad in the back of Los Angeles magazine about an ice skating camp, my first solo plane trip happened at 11 years old.
Back then, there was no such thing as a flight attendant who watched a kid traveling alone. But, I was pretty brave and I ended up having fun and spending the whole summer in Cape Cod.
At 17, I took my first group trip to Europe with no one that I knew. You guessed it, my mom found another and and gave me the trip as a graduation present. 😂
Travel Can Lead to Marriage
It was a Spring Break trip to Puerto Vallarta in my senior year of college where I met my husband. He actually told me he was going to marry me on the first day we met. 6 weeks later we secretly eloped in Vegas. I was 22 and he was 25.
My parents would have killed me if they found out so we left the US to do a 6 month trip to Europe as soon as I graduated. There were hostels, Eurail passes, and new friends from around the world. I went to 16 countries by the time I turned 23.
We moved back to the US and lived in San Francisco, still secretly married. We finally had a big wedding in our 3rd year together, then had our first son 3 years later. When he was 9 months old, we moved back to LA to be closer to family.
A Life Changing Event
At Thanksgiving dinner when I was 29, my mom said she was thankful that everyone was healthy. I had a bad headache for a few days before Thanksgiving that resumed much worse the following day.
We went to the emergency room and they did a CAT scan. It’s amazing how fast you can get bad news. I was there less than 30 minutes before the doctor said, “your CAT scan shows a bleed.”
My reward for the trip was to be ushered to the hallway for a spinal tap, followed by a angiogram with dye being injected into my brain to find a blockage, then an MRI and some other tests. I was in excruciating pain though it all and the tests didn’t find the cause.
The consensus was that I would have to take steroids to reduce the swelling in my brain and come back in 6 months for more tests when they would be able to see what was behind the bleed.
During the few next months, I felt like something bad was happening again and had a few more CAT scans. The neurologist seemed annoyed with my “chicken little sky is falling” fear and told me to go home and live my life.
Someone Was Trying to Tell Me Something
So I got in really good shape, and tried to take the best care of myself but something weird kept happening. Person after person (I think 7 in total) kept telling me to go see a neurosurgeon called Dr. Keith Black. None of these people knew each other and the last two were total strangers.
One was a woman next to the only available seat in a movie theater, besides the front row where my husband sat. The movie, City of Angels, played for about 20 minutes and suddenly stopped when Meg Ryan lost her patient during heart surgery.
I could hear the woman next to me crying. The bright theater lights came on. It was so awkward.
She had apparently lost her husband suddenly. I told her about my brain thing and she told me to see Dr. Keith Black. Weird! My next random instance happened a week later at the only available treadmill in the gym. The man on the treadmill next to me started telling me he recently lost his wife.
After his story, I told him mine and he said should see Dr. Keith Black, How crazy is that! I felt like the universe was telling me something so I finally made an appointment just in case.
Within a few minutes of reviewing all my prior scans, I was told that I probably had a cavernous angioma and needed brain surgery. Since I didn’t expect anything monumental to happen at the appointment, I went alone. Ugh! Again, bad news so fast!
Facing Your Mortality
My cavernous angioma was IN MY BRAIN, not on the surface. They had to remove part of my skull and use computers to guide them to the spot where they removed the raspberry like growth. It was more than 20 years ago and the technology was brand new. They wouldn’t have been able to operate a year earlier.
I came out of surgery looking like I could score a part on Star Trek. My partially shaved head was dotted with a 8 inch line of staples like a snake slithering across it. I’m not sharing the photo here because it’s one of those things you can’t unsee.
Lot’s of people want to know if I set off the alarm at airport security with my titanium infused head. Thankfully no!
Life is Short
When you have no choice but to face something horrible, it changes you.
We all pick and choose the things we want to deal with and live smaller lives out of fear. I’m no exception but I maybe let fear or embarrassment stop me a little less than some other people.
The other huge difference between me and most people I know is that I like getting older. There was a time when I might not have made it past 30 so I’m thrilled to be 54! Wrinkles, shminkles.
The Sweet Life
Hands down, the best part of my life is wrapped up in two amazing human beings. Having a chance to be a mom and crazy love these two boys is everything. It wasn’t always easy but it was what my life was all about and I was happy to just immerse myself in parenthood and stick closer to home.
We still took great trips to Hawaii, Mexico and more adventurous expeditions like going to the Wave in Arizona. But I missed the adventure of oversees travel.
The 2nd biggest turning point in my life happened in 2010…
My oldest son started high school and I decided to take a break from work to be a full time mom. Without a second income, I needed to find a way to stretch our dollars. I came across a new website called The Points Guy and learned how to use credit card sign up bonuses to get free flights and hotels nights.
We took free business class flights to Japan, Peru, Morocco, and years of free travel on Southwest Airlines. I wanted to share what I learned and started helping friends and family get credit cards for free travel. I also had a serious knack for creating active travel itineraries that had people asking me to plan their trips.
I even wrote some posts about it on a website called HubPages, which turned out to be the precursor to my life in blogging.
When I tried to resume my advertising career, I found out that 4 years off might as well have been 20 and I was basically unemployable. My choice was to take a job that I was overqualified for or start my own business. I eventually opted for the latter and a blog seemed like the best choice since it could be location independent.
A Blog Named The Evolista
It’s a combination of the word “evolve” and the suffix “ista” meaning an enthusiast. Since women (and men) evolve many times – school to career, marriage and divorce, parenthood and empty nesting or one of the other many transitions – there always seems to be the need for reinvention. The Evolista is about enthusiastically evolving.
In the beginning I covered a lot of topics – travel, fashion, health, and more but eventually it morphed into mostly travel. There was another evolution when the pandemic changed our world. After doing a 6 month US road trip, we bought a sprinter van and converted it to a home on wheels. We haven’t added it to the blog yet, but it may be coming.
Jen’s Craziest Travel Experience:
It’s a toss up between getting bitten by a panda in China and a tornado in Cuba. In both instances, I was definitely in the wrong place at the wrong time.
The panda bite makes everyone laugh because what dummy gets bitten by a panda! I swear, it wasn’t my fault! The tornado was followed by power outages, food poisoning and me vowing to never travel alone again, which I conveniently forget about when I really want to go somewhere.
I don’t care how many delays, problems and issues there are – every trip is 100% worth it! Travel challenges us in the best way. It gives us beautiful and crazy experiences that last for a lifetime.
The Other Half
My husband Guy is the often unseen, other half of The Evolista. He started his blogging/YouTube career as an Instahubby. While all the other guys were giving their wives a hard time about Instagram photos, he mastered photography and drone flying. Then we hit the road together as full time travelers after he lost his job in the pandemic.
Guy has even more travel experience than I do. He grew up traveling the world with a dad that was an offshore engineer. That means his dad was living on an oil rig while he and his siblings lived in foreign countries with their mom waiting for their dad’s return.
By the age of 10 he had already lived in Brazil, Canada, Singapore and United States. He also used to travel to Mexico to go surfing every chance he got. If it were up to Guy, this would be a surf blog, and we would travel the world in search of the perfect wave.
Guy’s Craziest Travel Experience
When they were growing up in Singapore, Guy and his siblings brought home a Komodo dragon they found and wanted to keep as a pet. Imagine being the parent to those wild kids.
What We’re Up To
Our kind of travel is to see those gorgeous sights that you’ve seen in pictures mixed with active pursuits. We also love meeting locals, exploring new places, learning new things and doing crazy adventures.
You’ll find us sand boarding in Morocco, Hot Air Ballooning in Turkey, boating in Croatia, Helicopter kayaking in Alaska, Hiking in Montenegro, rafting on the Yangtze river and more. If we go up high, go fast, or do something fun, we’re on it and sharing it with you!
We were well into a Travel Challenge to visit 50 new countries when things turned upside down in the world. While it felt like a huge set back, we took the chance to pivot and become full time travelers.
Even though we’ve been to all 50 states, we took advantage of seeing so much more on a one year road trip around the USA in 2020/2021. It’s amazing how much beauty is right here is our own back yard.
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